Why I Don’t Do Newsletters, plus an update on Never Change (Book #3)

I could make this a one sentence post: Because I don’t have time.

But let me flesh this out a bit more. I have a newsletter program set up, along with 50 subscribers. Many experts in the writing world advise authors to have newsletters to announce contests, new releases, and to keep in touch with their readership. I love the idea of a cute monthly newsletter, complete with awesome graphics, links, quizzes, and trivia, yet at the same time it seems daunting.

Daunting because I’m terrible with graphics, it takes me a long time to learn new programs, and the energy it takes just to think about putting together a newsletter steals away from the energy I need to simply write. My focus now needs to be writing my third book, Never Change. I use other methods to connect with readers, mainly my Facebook reader group, Instagram, Pinterest, and this blog. I know I haven’t been too active recently on this blog, but my intention is to make this like a newsletter.

That’s not to say I’ll never do an official newsletter. Perhaps somewhere down the line I’ll have the time to put into it, or I’ll be able to afford a good PA (personal assistant). Or maybe I’ll never do one, and that’s okay, too. Honestly, I subscribe to probably 10 author newsletters, and really only open a few, if any, per month. I feel bad that these authors spend time making newsletters that only a small percentage actually read. Right now, in this season of life, I’m not willing to put forth the effort for such a small return.

Thank you to those who’ve subscribed to my newsletter, I really appreciate your support! However, the best way to follow me is through the methods I’ve mentioned above. (Links are on the right side of the page).

So here’s my latest news, for those who are interested: Never Change (Faithfully Yours #3), is still in the rough draft form. I’ve written almost 50,000 words. That’s a little more than half-finished. Now that my kids are back in school, I have more time to write, so my plan is to finish this rough draft within the next four weeks. Once it’s finished, I’ll polish it up and hand it over to my beta readers. While my beta readers have Book #3, I’ll start working on Never Give Up (Faithfully Yours #4).

I’ll keep you posted as things happen, but my plan is to release Never Change by the end of February, 2017. I’m hoping (crossing fingers) to release Never Give Up by the end of 2017, or early 2018. Beyond that, I have plans for a box set with tons of extras, including Never Let Go (Book #1) written from David’s POV. That, I’d love to publish by the end of 2018.

If you have any questions or comments, feel free to message my FB author page, https://www.facebook.com/annecarolauthor/

As always, thanks for your patience and support!

~ Anne

 

 

 

Starting Over

In a few weeks, my sons will return to school – and I have to admit I’m looking forward to a return to routine, as well as a quiet house on my days off. So why do I feel a twinge of guilt at my joy? You see, my younger son will be starting high school, which means in just four years, I’ll have two college-age children.

That scares me. When I think about life three-four years ago, it feels like yesterday. Time is moving too fast for me, and in a blink of an eye my “babies” will no longer need me like they do now. They may be living across the country for all I know. Or they may choose to stay closer to home. Nevertheless, life will look very different.

It’s for this very reason you haven’t heard much from me on this blog over the past year. I’ve been too busy soaking up these last few years of parenting children at home. Parenting teens is a huge job. When I think of all the things that need to be taught over the next four years, it overwhelms me – from juggling academics, band, and sports to how to drive a car; from how to prepare meals to learning to work with difficult people. The physical exhaustion of parenting littles has evolved to a more emotional and mental series of tasks.

My priorities have changed dramatically since last fall (2015). Not only did our older son start high school (and in the process, adding a load of activities), but my husband and I were in a serious car accident in November. A drunk driver hit our car and then plowed into a second vehicle. Fortunately for us, our airbags deployed; but sadly, the passenger of the other car passed away after four days in a coma.

Even though we were physically okay (aside from whiplash), I struggled with anxiety, depression, and guilt for months afterward. My second book, Never Fall, was published nine days after the accident, but my heart wasn’t into it like with my first book. I didn’t feel like writing for a long time, and then my busy season at work arrived. Any hopes of a fall release of Never Change, my third Faithfully Yours book, vanished.

It’s now August, and I’m happy to say I’m about a third finished with the rough draft of Never Change. I’m aiming for a late February release date. I feel bad I’ve let down my readers, yet I know they’ll be patient and understanding. The thought that I could’ve been the one who died in the accident woke me up to the notion I need to put my family first. The lady who died had two sons in college, and I’m sure those boys will be cherishing every moment they spent with their mom. I don’t want my sons’ memories to be me sitting in front of my laptop 24/7 while they play video games in the other room.

The end of tax season and several wonderful vacations this summer have revitalized the itch to write, and I’m happy to say I’ve come out of my funk. But now the challenge is establishing the balance of writing and caring for my family. Until my last breath, they will always be my first priority. I could’ve done without the trauma of the car accident to reach this revelation, but I’m glad I can take something from that awful event.

So I guess you can say that I’m starting over, taking it one day at a time, and enjoying the writing process.

Thanks to those who’ve read my first two books. Never Change is coming along, I promise you!  I appreciate your patience.

~ Anne

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Moving Forward, Writing On…

Here we are, four days away from closing out another year! What a year it’s been, both personally and in my writing journey. I now have a high schooler, whose involvement in music and sports has made our calendar crazy busy! (But I’ll admit I love it!) On the down side, we were in a car accident which messed me up a bit, though it forced me to look at life differently. When you realize how quickly life can be taken away, your priorities quickly change.

2015 was my first full year as a published author. I found myself more active on my author Facebook account than on my personal account. I guess when you find others who understand and share your passion, it’s natural to gravitate towards those friends and acquaintances. Even though I haven’t personally met most of these people, I truly value the friendships I’ve made.

The downside of being on Facebook is the pressure it creates in me to keep up with the other authors. We’re all on our own journeys and nobody writes at the same pace. However, I’m one of the slowest indie writers, and until I can change my pace, I will not catch up to my friends.  I have to be okay with that for now, but it’s not easy, knowing realistically that I won’t reach a certain level until I can write more than one book a year. And I’ve made mistakes in my journey; decisions I can’t reverse. I’ve spent too much money on marketing that didn’t do a thing for my sales.

These frustrations have been addressed in previous posts, and I could fill another page with my disappointments.  But I’m not going to do that. Over the past few months, ever since the release of my second book, I’ve had many conversations with my author friends about this gig. One point kept being made over and over – move forward and write your next book!

I think I’m ready to do that: get back to the joy of creating a story with my favorite characters; fall in love with the words again. I’ll still continue to promote my first two books, but my focus needs to be on writing the next book.  I’m sure there’s a handful of readers out there who’ll appreciate that!

As for me, I appreciate all of you who take the time to read and like my blog posts! Starting next year, I’ll be doing a weekly series of posts about my favorite things. I’m looking forward to writing these posts!

Hope you all have a happy New Year!

~Anne

P.S. If you’re a fan of the 80s and you like sweet rock star romance, check out my books:

Never Let Go (Faithfully Yours #1): http://amzn.to/1WXfmVR

~I couldn’t wait until the next time I could be with him. He was like sunlight glistening on fallen snow; like a full moon lighting up a bleak October sky; like the bright opening at the end of a dark tunnel. He was my hero, in so many ways. And I was falling in love with him.~

Never Fall (Faithfully Yours #2): http://amzn.to/1WXeqRm

~Lying there, I studied his face, which looked at peace now. I gently traced my fingertip along his forehead, down his cheeks, and across his chin, thinking there was nothing I wouldn’t do for this man. We’d been through so much together. He’d been my hero, my protector, but now I felt a need to protect him.~

Keeping my head above water

A few weeks ago when we were in Kauai, we went snorkeling in a body of water that was (to me) a bit too rough and, therefore, out of my comfort zone for observing sea life. Let’s just say I freaked out a bit when I saw how far from shore we were, and my poor husband (who’s like a fish in the water) had to calm me down and escort me back to the beach. Thankfully this beach was empty at the time, so nobody saw my panic attack. Of course, once I was safely out of the water, it started pouring rain!

In spite of the rain, which was warm, I was just happy to be somewhere I could breathe freely. Snorkeling in calm waters is not a problem for me; in fact, I enjoy it. It’s when the water jostles me around that I start feeling unsettled. Where am I going with this, you ask? Well, I’ve been feeling like this with my writing life lately. I’ve been so focused on sales and marketing and how I compare with other authors that I feel like I’m drowning in my own negativity. I’m tired of it. I’d like to go back to shore and re-group. Breathe again.

To me, writing is breathing, and I’m ashamed to say I’ve hardly written anything new in over a month. I know I’m not the only writer to be distracted by and even obsessed with their book sales. It’s so easy. I mean, why do we write? If it was just for ourselves or our close group of friends, we wouldn’t have to pay for editors and cover designers and formatters, etc. We want people to read our books, and preferably, have those people pay for our books so we can afford to pay our expenses.

Lately I’ve become jaded by the indie publishing world – jostled like I was that day in the ocean. It’s scaring me, and I need to stop my negative emotions before they literally drown me and force me to give up what I love most – writing and sharing my stories. Okay, so I have an expensive hobby for a while. I think I’ll have to live with that for now. I just can’t stop doing what I ache to do.

This blog is going to change after this post. I’m going to try something different and write about my favorite things. I want you to get to know who I am – beyond the face of the struggling indie author. There’s a lot more to me than that!

Thank you for reading and stay tuned for My Favorite Things, a new series of blog posts!